Have you ever
misinterpreted what someone is trying to say:
Or trying to do? I live in
Taiwan and recently I got a call from a taxi-driver demanding money for “our
accident.” Apparently, someone who was
on the way to the church had an accident with this man. In the discussion they had after the
accident, the person mentioned he was on the way to the church. The cab driver apparently misunderstood the
man and thought that I was the person with whom he’d had the accident, so he
called and demanded money from me and warned me that he had notified the
police. Since I had no knowledge of
what he was talking about I refused to pay him, thinking it was a scam to get
money from me. (These types of things happen sometimes in Taiwan.)
He interpreted my
refusal to pay him anything as a sign that I was trying to defraud him. So he became angry and threatening. “I will call the police.” “Go ahead, we’ll straighten it out with
them." It was a misunderstanding. The person with whom he’d had the accident paid him and
everything worked out.
In the text I want
to use for today’s post the disciples misinterpret what Jesus is saying to
them. I believe that we often misinterpret
what God is doing or trying to do in our lives.
Mark 8:13-21 (NKJV)
8:13 And He left them, and getting into the boat again, departed to the other side. 14 Now the disciples had forgotten to take bread, and they did not have more than one loaf with them in the boat. 15 Then He charged them, saying, "Take heed, beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and the leaven of Herod." 16 And they reasoned among themselves, saying, "It is because we have no bread." 17 But Jesus, being aware of it, said to them, "Why do you reason because you have no bread? Do you not yet perceive nor understand? Is your heart still hardened? 18 Having eyes, do you not see? And having ears, do you not hear? And do you not remember? 19 When I broke the five loaves for the five thousand, how many baskets full of fragments did you take up?" They said to Him, "Twelve." 20 "Also, when I broke the seven for the four thousand, how many large baskets full of fragments did you take up?" And they said, "Seven." 21 So He said to them, "How is it you do not understand?"
We Often Miss the
Point
Our text here is a
classic example of missing the point.
Jesus is talking about the leaven of the Pharisees and the disciples are
worried that they don’t have enough bread.
I think this is a perfect example of why we sometimes miss God’s
point. They were so concerned with
their own problems that they think that Jesus was pointing that out to
them. It’s like the taxi driver
story. The taxi driver was so concerned
about getting paid that he didn’t even realize I wasn’t the guy who he had the
accident with.
In our text, the
disciples are so concerned with the fact that they didn’t have bread, that they
assume Jesus is criticizing them for that.
Jesus, on the other hand never mentions bread, he only mentions one
ingredient of bread, Leaven. If I mentioned egg yolks would you automatically
assume I was talking about Cakes?
Probably not, but that’s what the disciples did, here. “Leaven!”
“Augh, He’s criticizing us for forgetting to bring bread." Sometimes we misinterpret what God is saying
or doing because we are so focused on our own lives and the problems associated
with them.
Think about it for
a moment. When we are going through
something we often pray, “God help me.”
“God get me out of this problem.”
But actually we may be experiencing these things because God is working
in us. God may be trying to change us
in some aspect of our lives. We’re
praying, “God deliver me from this evil; this time of struggle,” when the
struggle is God trying to deal with the issue.
A good example of
this is financial struggle. We’re
praying God deliver me from this financial difficulty.” But what God is doing is causing you to
struggle in your finances so that you can get a handle on your spending
problem, or your reliance on credit cards.
The thing is that God isn’t going to wave a magic wand and cause all your
troubles to disappear. We think God isn’t
connected to hardship, that God is a loving God whgo will fix our
problems. God is like that, He does
desire to fix your problems, but he fixes them through your decisions. God is faithful to bring the problems to our
attention, so we can decide to fix them.
We are misinterpreting the move of God for us as the Devil’s move
against us.
Isn’t that what the
disciples are doing here. Jesus is
trying to deal with hypocrisy in their lives and they have misinterpreted it as
a rebuke of their forgetfulness. Think
about the things you’re praying about; the things you’re struggling with and
asking for God’s help with. What are
you expecting God to do? Are you
thinking God will make the problem disappear without you being involved? More likely, God is trying to show you an area
where you need to change.
I want to
illustrate this with the story of Cain and Abel. I want you to see two things here. One, how God tries to change us and two, what can happen if we
misinterpret God’s intentions.
Abel comes to bring
God an offering of the firstborn lamb of his flock and sacrifices it. Cain, after a while brings an offering of
vegetables. That saying, after a while,
implies that these are not the first fruits.
So God respects Abel’s offering and rejects Cain’s. So, Cain has a choice here. He can either say, “Okay I messed up,” or do
it right, or he can get angry at God and jealous of Abel. Of course we know what happens, Cain gets
angry with God, and jealous of Abel and ends up killing Abel in a field.
But in the course
of all this, God says something remarkable to Cain.
Genesis 4:6-7 (NKJV) 6 So the Lord said to Cain, "Why are you angry? And why has your countenance fallen? 7 If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin lies at the door. And its desire is for you, but you should rule over it."
“Why are you angry?
If you do well you will be accepted.”
In other words God is saying, “Okay, you’ve been rebuked. If you do well it’ll be okay.” So Cain is misinterpreting what God is
trying to do. God is trying to show
Cain where he’s wrong and what needs to be changed so the problem can be
fixed. All Cain has to do is admit he’s
wrong and decide to change. But there
is a warning there for Cain also. Sin
lies at the door, crouches there waiting to spring when we reject what God is
trying to do in us. Cain is filtering
God’s intentions through his own ideas of the way it should be.
Do you know what I
mean by that? How many times have you
tried to make someone understand how you want them to do something, only to
hear him or her say, “Okay. okay, okay,”
but you can see they don’t understand what you’re saying, they’re
filtering what you said through what they think is right. This happens to me all the time, and it’s
frustrating. I don’t even want to think
about how often that must happen to God.
The Bible tells us that this leads to sin. Do you know why? Because
you begin to rely on yourself and act in your own will, instead of acting in
the will of God. That’s where Cain went
wrong and look where it led.
What Causes Us to
Miss the Point?
I think the reason
we filter God’s intention through our own ideas stems from a basic problem in
people. The problem is unbelief or a
lack of faith. Let’s go back to our
text for a moment. Look at what Jesus
says to them about their thinking that he’s “hassling” them about the forgotten
bread.
Mark 8:17-21 (NKJV)
8:17 But Jesus, being aware of it, said to them, "Why do you reason because you have no bread? Do you not yet perceive nor understand? Is your heart still hardened? 18 Having eyes, do you not see? And having ears, do you not hear? And do you not remember? 19 When I broke the five loaves for the five thousand, how many baskets full of fragments did you take up?" They said to Him, "Twelve." 20 "Also, when I broke the seven for the four thousand, how many large baskets full of fragments did you take up?" And they said, "Seven." 21 So He said to them, "How is it you do not understand?"
Jesus begins to
deal with them about the reason why they don’t understand, and he zeroes in on
the problem. He asks them if their
hearts are still hard. I want you to
think about your own heart here for a moment.
When was your heart hardened about the things of God? When was it that you didn’t want to hear
about God or from God? Wasn’t it when
you didn’t believe?
When did you get
mad at people for witnessing to you?
Before you believed in God, right?
Your heart was hard when you didn’t believe in God. But there’s another time when your heart is
hardened, and that’s when you don’t want to hear what God is trying to say
about what you’re doing that you don’t want to change: When you don’t have faith that God has your
best interest in mind.
“God mde me like
this, if he were a good God he wouldn’t be doing this to me.” I’ve even heard people say, “How can I
believe in a God who did this to me.”
That’s unbelief and hardness of heart isn’t it? That’s how Cain thought, “God’s not trying
to work in me, He’s trying to tick me off.”
So after Jesus asks
the disciples if their hearts are hard, He reminds them of something that
should cause them to have faith. “Were
you there when I fed five thousand families?
Didn’t you pick up the fragments that were left over? How about the time I fed four thousand
families? How much was left over then?” “Do you really think I’m worried about
bread? If you saw all of that how can
you not understand what I’m saying to you?”
The problem was a lack of faith…A lack of faith will cause us to
misinterpret God because it will harden our hearts.
I gave some
examples of people who are upset at God because God isn’t doing what they want
God to do. Through their unbelief they
assume that God’s intentions toward them are evil, when God’s intentions are
the opposite. Because of their unbelief
they can’t believe that God is trying to work in them, or help them, or change
them because they don’t believe God wants the best for them or has their best
interests in mind.
This is one of our
great failings. We do this over and
over because we have such short memories.
When things are going well, we like God. When things are not, we think God is against us.
This is one of the
reasons the Israelites had such a great struggle in the wilderness. Three days after God delivers them from
Egypt through the most powerful set of miracles imaginable, they’re asking
Moses, “Why did you bring us out here to die?”
Things got a little hard. God
had just moved heaven and earth to rescue them and three days later they’ve
forgotten all about it and begin to misinterpret God’s intentions. They do this over and over and because of it
God eventually says, “Just wander around the desert for forty years until this
unbelieving generation passes away.”
The disciples are
no better. They do the same thing in a
storm at sea.
Mark 4:36-41 (NKJV)
4:36 Now when they had left the multitude, they took Him along in the boat as He was. And other little boats were also with Him. 37 And a great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat, so that it was already filling. 38 But He was in the stern, asleep on a pillow. And they awoke Him and said to Him, "Teacher, do You not care that we are perishing?" 39 Then He arose and rebuked the wind, and said to the sea, "Peace, be still!" And the wind ceased and there was a great calm. 40 But He said to them, "Why are you so fearful? How is it that you have no faith?" 41 And they feared exceedingly, and said to one another, "Who can this be, that even the wind and the sea obey Him!"
The disciples had
been with Him when He healed multitudes earlier in that day. They had seen the power of God play out
through Him. They had witnessed
miracles. They’d heard His words; they
knew He was the Messiah. They knew His
purpose. But they forgot it all when
the water got rough. They lost faith.
These were the men
who were with Jesus. These are the men
who should have had the greatest faith.
They saw His power everyday, and they struggled with unbelief the whole
time. So do you! How can I know that, because I do, too? When we struggle with unbelief we are in
danger of misinterpreting God.
Look at What He’s
Done
How does Jesus deal
with this in them? He points them to
the things He’s already done. Remember
the five thousand hungry people and the leftovers? Remember the four thousand fed with just seven loaves.
How do we keep
faith? In order to keep faith we need
to look at the things God has already done in us and through us. Instead of
dwelling on the discomfort of the moment, we need to dwell on the times when God has come through for us. It seems
really simple doesn’t it? When I had
this issue, God saved me in this way.
When that problem happened I remember what God did.
But it isn’t all
that simple because we have short memories, just like the Israelites in the
desert and the disciples in the storm.
When we’re struggling with something, we focus on that instead of all the
times God has delivered us in some way.
You know, quite
often I struggle with pain. Every
time I do I focus on that. I’m not
thinking about how God literally saved my life 20 years ago, I’m complaining, “every
time we have revival I go through this.”
I’m just like the Israelites. I’m
just like the disciples. I’m just like
you.
But I have to tell
you something we have an advantage over the Israelites and the disciples. We have the Bible. We can read it and be reminded about what God has done; we can be
reminded of God’s intentions. It’s all
right there in the Bible, so we don’t really have an excuse for our
unbelief. The problem is that we don’t
always read it often enough.
If we read it every
day it will help to keep us in remembrance of these things; to see His power
regularly; to remind us of His intentions toward us. If God didn’t have our best interest in mine, He never would have
sent His Son. Reminding yourself of
that will help to keep you from misinterpreting God.